Summer Patio Update: One Simple Tip to Make The Entry of Your Home Welcoming, Plus Tulsa Garden and Patio Supplies Sources

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Patio Aspirations (and Dreams Deferred)

I struggle with making the front of my house look attractive.

I admit, my curb appeal game is not very strong. In fact, the list of things I’d like to update and change is the same list from last year.

And I quote:

1. beautiful landscaping (?!)
2. a circle drive (?!?!)
3. repairing the sidewalk with the giant crack
4. replacing and repainting the siding
5. removing the Astroturf from the front step
6. replacing the supports with simple wooden ones

The list, it goes on and on.

One Simple Tip To Update and Refresh Your Patio (with Tulsa Garden and Patio Sources)

Though I have accomplished nothing from my wishlist (yet), I did remember one thing from last year about easily improving my curb appeal for the summer:

Add flowers!

So I did.

I went to Rancho Flores here in Tulsa, Okla., a garden center and landscape haven, and perused until I saw yellow flowers that tickled my fancy.

I’m going to have my fancy tickled always when I drive up to my home this summer! And that’s nice, right?

Patio Dining, Patio Playdates, Patioscapes (!!!), and other Patio Dreams

So, how’s your patio game? Did you make a list of patio aspirations (that may or may not have been realistic)? Or are you more down to earth about your patio dreams and desires? Does anyone else dream of entertaining on your patio and, if so, what’s your to-do list around that? How about patio playdates?

What’s your favorite one-simple-patio-refresh-trick? We’re dying to know. Tell us your secrets in the comments.

(Daly wanted me to mention that you should be sure to see my patio from last year in a post that features me watering my plants.)

Winning! #plantmom #crazyplantlady

Tulsa Garden and Patio Supply Sources

Rancho Flores for hanging plants and large white pot on porch // small porch pot from Retro Den // Dried Bridal Bush Wreath from Daly’s in-laws yard // One lantana in the large pot from Tulsa Farmer’s Market, another extremely romantic business partner gift from Daly //

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Succulent Sara

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Two Sundays ago, Sara Sherman, best known at our shop as Succulent Sara, suffered a stroke. She passed away this afternoon surrounded by loved ones.

We met Sara almost a year into our Retro Den story at the Tulsa Flea Market. We purchased her plants to brighten up our vintage pottery. She eventually asked us what we were doing with her plants and wanted to come check out our store. We felt nervous and hoped we would be approved for her plants. At that visit, she proposed our business partnership which spanned the next five years of our lives. Seriously, the internet reminded us while sitting at Sara’s hospital bedside that on April 2nd of last week it had been exactly five years since we announced having Sara’s plants available for purchase.

I doubt a day has gone by in five years that we haven’t told Sara’s story to someone...mostly while potting up her succulents at the shop or just in passing. At check out, we always ask succulent purchasers if they’ve bought succulents before. We quickly offer the Succulent 101 basics–don’t water too much and get them lots of light. Then we tell folks, “A woman named Sara from Independence, Kansas, grew these. She lives at her greenhouse and puts her entire heart into caring for each plant. You cannot have a better plant or more powerful positive energy in your home. They radiate the passion of someone doing what they love.”

We are heartbroken, we are glad she’s in the safe, bright beyond, we are missing our friend...She’d eerily told Palmer the day before her stroke that she wasn’t afraid to die. She’d told Daly once that everyone lives on through the love they offer others and the ways a person invests their heart–Sara lives on in us, in you, in her plants, in anyone she protected or championed. Sara is our beloved friend. She had a way of collecting beautiful people and offering her strength and encouragement to us all, and we couldn’t be prouder to have been a permanent spot on her Tulsa route.

The past days have brought to light some really nice things we didn’t know about our kind, joyful, funny friend. We want to share those insights and a few others with you below. Then if you would, please tell us more. Tell us anything about Sara. Everything. We cannot hear enough. And share photos of her plants that you own.

Things about Sara:

  • She lived in her greenhouse and slept on bags of dirt, all by choice, to be closer to her plants and the life she loved.

  • She told us she would never want to fight the person who made our macrame wall in the front of the do not ever fight Natasha Ball, because Succulent Sara thinks she has incredibly strong hands worth fearing.

  • She left behind a dog named Chico and cat named Peanut.

  • The day before she had a stroke, Palmer told her about my daughter Harriet pooping in Palmer’s backyard and thought that was hilarious.

  • Two Saturdays before, I (Daly) showed her a video of Caroline and Harriet getting soaked and muddy, dipping their bottoms into the bird bath on Palmer’s patio. And Sara laughed and laughed with pride.

  • She had a college scholarship for vocal performance.

  • She had red hair before she went gray.

  • Once when she was young, she fell off a horse with her dear cousin Patsy and cushioned Patsy’s fall.

  • She loved eating at White River Fish Market.

  • She drove a beaten blue green Bronco that had dents from buffalos leaning upon it (“Buffalo Gal”), then more recently sported a large red van.

  • She always added avocado to her sandwiches we ordered at the shop.

  • Sara was known for taking in and giving people a place to live when they had nowhere to go.

  • Sara collected rare mutated succulents.

  • She’d been setting up at the Tulsa Flea Market for decades.

  • She once desegregated a YMCA in the midwest.

  • I (Daly) was once very down, and Sara, to cheer me up, told me a VERY gory story about the time she almost had to get her leg amputated. While listening, I feared she was telling me that shit could always be worse than just being a person with depression...but instead she ended her story putting her arm around me and said, “Things can always get better, Ashley.”

If you loved Sara or love her plants, the best way to honor her is to offer love and acceptance, dig in the dirt, and do what brings you peace with passion.